Ever Felt Like You Had Something Important to Say, But Weren’t Sure How to Share It?

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Apr 28, 2025

It’s been over 6 weeks since I’ve written a letter.

Yes, I’ve been keeping track.

I see people subscribing on Substack and a few even paying and I feel the obligation.

But I had to wait until something arose in me so strong that I had to share it. I feel the urge to write it because I feel I’m speaking from experience.

I hope it helps.

Recognizing the Voice You’ve Been Ignoring

Ever had a thought so vivid you felt it in your chest, only to watch it slip away because you couldn’t shape the words?

That knot of frustration.

The inability to clearly articulate thoughts and ideas effectively.

That’s the type of shit that can leave you feeling unseen.

Let me know if this sounds familiar:

You scroll through social feeds

You watch friends and colleagues speak with confidence and wonder why you’re not able to share your perspective so effortlessly.

And you wonder if this is how it’s always going to be.

When I started podcasting in 2014, I learned a lesson that felt almost counterintuitive: ordinary voices carry extraordinary power.

I’ll never forget the moment that Gary Leland shared a childhood moment where he was playing with a friend in their neighborhood. At some point, they stumbled upon a gun under the seat of a family member’s unlocked car.

Gary proceeded, as kids do, to play cops and robbers with his friend. He pointed the gun at his childhood buddy and pulled the trigger.

The gun was loaded.

But the lock was on and the gun just clicked.

I can still vividly remember my experience of listening to him tell that story. I was screaming inside my head, “just the f— up! do NOT interrupt, let him finish!”

Once Gary finished telling the story, he paused. Then he said “You know? I don’t think I ever shared that story with anyone!”

It was in that moment I began to understand how to find your authentic voice, not by polishing every sentence, but by honoring the small truths you already carry.

Stories matter because they awaken presence. As Eckhart Tolle suggests, true expression arises when you release the need for perfection and instead observe your thoughts without judgment.

That shift from fixating on performance to gentle curiosity transforms self-doubt into discovery.

When Every Attempt to Share Falls Flat

When it comes to sharing your stories, let me guess:

You rehearse your ideas on the commute home, draft paragraphs in a notes app, or stare at a blank document—only to freeze when the moment arrives.

You share a brief insight on social media and watch the notification count sit at zero. Each stumble feels like a confirmation of self-doubt, making the very act of sharing feel futile.

You feel tongue-tied in meetings while colleagues articulate complex ideas without hesitation.
You draft a blog post outlining your vision, but the words feel hollow and you abandon it.
You start a difficult conversation with a loved one, only to bail halfway through.
You journal faithfully, but the pages become another to-do, piling up without ever giving you clarity.

Deepak Chopra reminds us that creativity flows when we connect with our deeper self rather than striving to prove something.

Yet this inner connection can feel blocked when every attempt to share falls flat, reinforcing the belief that your voice doesn’t matter. In truth, that blockage is often a lack of felt safety rather than lack of content.

You’re Not Broken, You’re Just Unsure Where to Begin

Let’s honor the real doubts you carry.

You may worry this is “another trend you will never stick with,” or think, “I don’t have the time or skills to do this right.”

Those questions—“Do people genuinely care about what I have to say?”—are themselves signs of your deep commitment to authenticity.

Instead of critiquing yourself for hesitation, treat your curiosity as fuel.

Ask yourself:

What anecdotes do I revisit in conversation?

Which moments in my life still stir emotion when I recall them?

Finding your authentic voice begins with that simple inquiry.

It’s not about crafting the perfect speech but about allowing yourself to explore what truly matters to you.

Consider a practice inspired by Chopra’s emphasis on self-reflection: spend 5 minutes each morning observing a fleeting memory or idea, then speak it aloud into your phone.

No editing, no expectation. Over time you’ll notice recurring themes. Those are the seeds of your most resonant stories.

Imagine Your Stories Sparking Real Connection

Now imagine a different scene: you share a simple anecdote in a casual chat or a brief voice note, and someone responds, “That really resonated with me.”

In that instant you witness the ripple effect of your experiences.

You forge deeper relationships by speaking from the heart rather than reading from a script.

Continue the momentum by recording five-minute sessions that capture genuine reflections.

You’ll discover that what you deemed mundane, your commute routine or a childhood memory, becomes the catalyst for someone else’s insight.

I’ve seen it happen and I know it’s real.

Unleashing your authentic voice means trusting that your history, your quirks, and even your hesitations. Why? Because these are the very qualities that create a bond with others.

A Moment to Notice What’s Already Within You

You’ve been sharing your truth all along. You simply haven’t recognized its power. Grant yourself permission to speak up.

Affirmation: You have inspired someone today simply by being you.
Micro-Observation: Notice the story you recount most often without planning.
Anchor Truth: Your everyday experiences carry more value than you realize.

Ask these questions:

What if the next person who listens needs exactly what you have lived?
How would your day shift if you trusted your own voice as truth?
When was the last time you shared something and felt truly seen?

Stop measuring yourself against imagined standards. You don’t need a studio, a script, or an algorithm.

All you need is permission—to explore, to speak, to connect.

And I’ve just granted it to you.

Start with small acts of sharing, and let your genuine perspective guide you forward.

That is how you truly find your authentic voice.

with gratitude,

Harry

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